I was in a relationship with Rob Kampia for a year.
He is a complete con artist/Toxic Narcissist and lured me into the relationship with nothing but lies, pretending and fake promises that dragged on until all he did was drain and take while he Lied/ Gaslighted me about obvious cheating and Triangulation with other women that took place in my face. I was under extreme duress if I even mentioned the blatant disrespect/ obvious inappropriate sexual behavior….The abuse became extreme in many ways, it was a drip drip situation. He cheated on me with a 50 year old prostitute whom he introduced as a “relationship coach” named River Del Llano, he leveraged her in the abuse by having her berate me with him and validating his abuse towards me. She was bitterly jealous of me, which I believed justified her logic in perpetuating the abuse that I was dealing with in my relationship and having an affair with my abuser, and wanting me to know about it because she was naked with him at Barton Springs. When I screamed and cried, he claimed “he didn’t find her attractive-he was bored-I had F*cked up conservative views-she was just a hippy* Prior to severely abusing me by shifting blame and blaming me for my normal reaction to an abnormal amount of bs. The abuse, cheating, manipulation, tourment, gaslighting, triangulation continued….
A few months the #MeToo movement happened, and the bad guy was beheaded. And my sanity was back in tact because I was clearly not the “Jealous one that had trust issues and overeacting” according to many other people, they have also experienced abuse by Rob Kampia as well, I wasn’t alone in this. The abuse I experiences wasn’t a figment of my imagination! Rob is a highly manipulative, Toxic, EVIL to the core abusive person.
This is my fair warning and sharing of my personal experienced.